Monday, April 13, 2015

Weekend in Texas

Robert and I had the opportunity to attend Youth Ministry Lab at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary this weekend.  It was great!  We left on Thursday and were able to spend the night with my aunt, uncle, and cousin outside of Dallas.  I had visited them there once at Thanksgiving a few years ago, but Robert had never been.  They welcomed us with a delicious dinner of smoked ribs which is always okay in Robert's book.  After that, we spent some time chatting, demoing my cousin's virtual reality simulator, and watching a movie called Bernie.  On Friday morning we explored downtown and finished up our time with Aunt Dana with some delicious burgers and pie.

Chocolate silk
We drove about an hour and a half to get to the seminary and got checked in.  We had some time before the conference actually started so we did some exploring.  It was definitely bigger than Southeastern, and it made us miss our time at seminary.

The chapel


Part of President Patterson's collection
We walked around campus and drove around a bit.  We found the duplexes where my parents lived when Dad went to Southwestern.


We ventured off campus and found Robert's first house.  He lived there until he was about four years old.


We got checked into our hotel and were pleasantly surprised at how nice it was.  La Quinta served us well!

The first two sessions were with JD Greear of The Summit.  We thought it was funny that we had to travel to Texas to hear a popular pastor from North Carolina.  We never did meet him when we lived there, but we made sure to introduce ourselves at the conference.  He spoke about the assurance of salvation, and we enjoyed listening to him.


Next up was Gary Thomas, author of Sacred Marriage.  We've been fans of Thomas for a few years.  We went through his book during our premarital counseling and again in our Sunday School class in NC.  He's such a mesmerizing speaker, and he brings great insights.  We heard him speak twice - Friday night and Saturday morning.  The funniest thing he said was, "You can't possibly expect to keep your spouse infatuated for six decades.  Nobody is that interested!"  Ha!  He said this in regard to the need to focus on God's Kingdom in order to have a long-lasting marriage.  If we are both more focused on God's Kingdom and loving each other well more than being loved, then we will have a God-honoring marriage and be loved well in the process.  It made me want to read more of his books!  That and the fact that we found out he's a Duke fan.


We got back to the hotel on Friday night and enjoyed having cable TV for a bit.  The next morning we had a tasty breakfast at the hotel.


Like I said, we heard Gary speak again on Saturday morning.  We also heard Johnny Derouen speak on having open doors for youth ministry and how to attract students.  He spoke about the extreme importance of prayer and asking the Holy Spirit to bring in students.  

We enjoyed lunch at Joe T. Garcia's, and Robert especially loved his fajitas.  After lunch, we hung out at the pool.  The pool wasn't heated, but Robert still hopped in.  I stuck with dipping my fit in the hot tub.



Robert had the idea to see a Rangers game, and we enjoyed watching them play the Astros.  We had seats on the absolute back row, but on the plus side, nobody can kick your chair when nobody is sitting behind you.  The weather was perfect for a game!



The Gingerbread Man made an appearance.
On Sunday, we went to The Village Church in hopes to hear Matt Chandler preach.  Unfortunately, he didn't preach, but the guest speaker did a very good job, and we still got to meet Matt after the service.  After church, we started the journey back home.  Thankfully, the hour drive from the hotel to church put us an hour closer to home, so the trip was broken up a bit.  We had lunch at Whataburger (my first time), and made it home safely.  Robert was awesome and drove the whole time.  I was able to crochet and read magazines.  I was also the DJ in charge of the iPod.  It's weird to think that this is one of the last road trips with just the two of us (Alabama in May).  When we got home, I made sure to crack out my souvenir: some peach salsa.



Sunday, April 12, 2015

Sickness and Appointment #5

Robert and I consider ourselves to have pretty good immune systems.  We've known each other for more than five years, and neither of us has had the flu in that time, and we've each only had a cold or two (minus the time I had mono!).  However, in March Robert caught a cold and passed it to me.  It was no fun, but it was still just your standard cold.  I blame my cold on Robert and my weakened pregnant immune system.  I was feeling back to normal until last Wednesday night.  I got home from church and realized I had developed a sore throat and threw up twice through the night.  I just knew I'd wake up the next morning with a cold.  I was right - stuffy/leaking nose, cough, tired.  I had a super low-grade fever of 99.6.  I considered it to be fairly good timing because I had my fifth OBGYN appointment the next day and decided to just mention the cold while I was there.

The appointment went well.  Baby girl's heart rate has slowed down a bit and is now 150 bpm.  My blood pressure and pulse are good.  Everything was good.  I mentioned my cold, and the doctor wasn't concerned at all.  I checked out and made my next appointment.  That'll be the big kahuna: another ultrasound, appointment with the doctor, glucose test with blood work, and a TDAP vaccine.

I felt pretty much the same on Saturday and Sunday, but then on Monday I felt so much worse.  Robert said my cough was "scary" and actually jumped once when I coughed.  I didn't sleep well and woke up several times to blow my nose and hack up a lung.  I woke up with super gross gunk in my lashes and very red eyes.



About halfway through Monday my right ear got clogged up, I couldn't hear well, and it felt like my ear had a little knife in it.  I self-diagnosed myself with an ear infection, took Tylenol, put a hot pack on my head, and decided to call the doctor on Monday morning.  Apparently my OBGYN doesn't take sick patients, and I don't have a primary care physicians here since I've just been going to the OBGYN every four weeks, so to urgent care we went.  I made the remark to Robert that if you didn't come to urgent care with some sort of horrible illness you were bound to have one by the time you left.  Two people wore masks, one lady was laying on the chair with a pillow, and another person was wheeled in in a wheelchair.  Once I got to the exam room the doctor only needed about two minutes to diagnose me with an upper respiratory infection, ear infection, and ruptured ear drum.  While that was awful, it was nice to get a speedy diagnosis that coincided with what I suspected.  According to my mom, I had a ruptured ear drum when I was little as well.  Man, it's not fun.  Got a prescription for an antibiotic as well as ear drops, and within 24 hours I started feeling significantly better.

While I'm writing about illness, I have to tell you about Mittens' sickness.  I can't decide which is worse - being sick yourself or having your pet who can't speak be sick.  If you don't have pets or are a cat hater, feel free to stop reading here.  As a side note, if you are a cat hater, Mittens will convert you!  Anyway, last Sunday night I noticed Mittens going to her litter box every five minutes without success.  She'd hop in, try, kick around the litter, get out, and return five minutes later.  I knew something was wrong.  Then on Monday I realized it'd been 24 since she had a BM which is very unlike her.  I also realized that she'd thrown up a bit through the night.  She was crying a lot, and let me just tell you, this confirmed that her crying for food isn't nearly as desperate as I thought it was.  Her real "I'm in pain" crying was infinitely more pitiful.  Mittens slept on Roberts chest for more than two hours one of these nights which she's never done in her entire life.  We thought it was cute, but as I put two and two together I began to realize that she did this because she wasn't feeling well.  Of course, Robert took it as a sign that she finally likes him.  Doubtful. ;)

So sleepy!

We don't have a vet here locally yet, but I found a place online that was able to see her on Tuesday so we went for it.  The appointment was at 5:00, so we had to wait all day.  She was so lethargic and pitiful.  Sure, she always sleeps a lot, but her sleeping posture was different.  It was more like collapsing than snuggling in for a nap.  She didn't want to play or be brushed which is so uncharacteristic.  Thankfully, she was still eating and drinking normally.  We got her to the vet.  Putting her in her carrier and driving with her is basically the worst and traumatic for all.  The vet was very nice.  Mittens was in a cat-specific exam room.  She loves the high window with the big ledge.  It definitely made her feel safer while she got acclimated.  The vet handles her and examined her little body.  He confirmed that her colon felt good.  She ended up peeing on the exam table which was actually perfect because he just did a urine sample right there and was able to determine that she had a lower urinary tract infection with blood in her urine.  A kitty cat UTI.  How pitiful is that?  He said that the constipation was a side effect of the UTI.  He gave her an antibiotic shot in her upper back and gave her a prescription to relax her digestive system so everything could pass easier.  We had her trim her nails while he was at it.  He made it look so easy.

Scoping out the place

Anyway, Robert went out to the car with her while I paid.  When I got in the car Robert had felt bad for her and was letting her walk around the car instead of staying in her carrier.  I knew just how bad he felt for her because I've asked him before if we could do this and he said no.  Mittens loved it.  So much so that she wiggled herself under my chair and wouldn't come out.  When we got back to the townhouse Robert tried to pull her out by her collar, but now that she's lost one pound on her diet and we haven't adjusted her collar that stinking thing slid right off.  Thankfully, she came out very quickly after that, and it was the perfect time to wash and adjust her collar.  She was sleepy when we came home and lounged even more than usual for about two days.  I know that's because of the shot and pills.

Her new "spot."  I don't love that she sits on the table, but at least her blanky is on top of it, and it's better than her old spot of the back of the chair.

We were to give her a pill at each meal, and she took it so easily for the first two days.  After that, she started to feel better and stopped taking it.  The doctor said that was fine but to still just put one out in the food bowl at each meal until the prescription was empty.  She's so funny!  The princess can't just not eat it.  She has to flick it out of her food bowl as if to declare, "I can't have that in my presence!"

Finally sitting up again

So when we were at the vet on Tuesday he said to come back on Friday if her litter box habits still hadn't returned to normal.  On Thursday morning things hadn't improved so I called to set up the appointment for the next day.  Thank heavens, the needy thing surprised us Thursday and all was well.  She's doing so much better now.  It was awful.  I know she's "just a cat," but with a human you can explain how you feel and what hurts, but you just can't do that with your bed.  Robert said it was good preparation for a sick baby who can't speak yet.  I'd agree.

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Weeks 18-22

18 Weeks (Sunday, March 1)
Size of baby: A sweet potato, 5.6 inches, 6.7 ounces

19 Weeks (Sunday, March 8)
Size of baby: A mango, 6.0 inches, 8.5 ounces

20 Weeks (Sunday, March 15)
Size of baby: A banana, 6.5 inches, 10.2 ounces

21 Weeks (Sunday, March 22)
Size of baby: A pomegranate, 10.5 inches, 12.7 ounces

22 Weeks (Sunday, March 29)
Size of baby: A papaya, 11.8 inches, 15.8 ounces

Baby has developed all five sense: taste, sight, smell, touch, and hearing.  Baby has started manufacturing meconium (gross/cool).  Baby sleeps about 12-14 hours a day.

I felt baby girl kick for the first time on March 17.  We had gone to Jim's intramural basketball game and got home a little bit late.  Shortly after that we headed for bed, and as I was laying there I felt a few strange twitches in my stomach.  I wasn't 100% sure what it was, and I knew Robert had already fallen asleep so I didn't wake him up.  The next morning I googled "twitching muscle spasm in stomach while pregnant."  Novice mom, huh?  Sure enough, there were about a million articles and forums saying that when baby first starts doing noticeable kicks it feels like a muscle spasm or twitch you might have in your leg or something.  My obgyn had said baby's kicks would feel like a butterfly in my stomach.  I don't know about that.  I'm still going with twitch/spasm.  Anyway, ever since then I've noticed that if I'm sitting still or laying down I am bound to feel baby girl moving around.  On Wednesday I called Robert at work at told him I had officially felt baby moving.  When he came home for lunch he was able to feel her, too.  So cool!  Unfortunately, he hasn't been able to feel her since then, but I definitely have.  I'll call him over to feel, but then she stops.  She's an ornery thing!  People keep saying, "Just wait til she's bigger.  The kicking won't be so cute then."  Maybe so, but for now it's a nice reminder that she's still doing her thing and making progress toward making her grand entry into this world.  It's crazy to think that she still doesn't even weigh 1 pound even though we're a couple of weeks past the halfway mark.

Personally, I feel like I'm showing, but I'm definitely not to the point where strangers say anything like, "So when are you due?  Boy or girl?"  If I wear a t-shirt it just looks like I have a pudgy stomach, but if I wear a maternity shirt (I have a couple now) it looks more pronounced.

I've been feeling really good the last week or so.  After the nausea wrapped up around week 13, I still struggled with pretty bad dizziness, but it finally subsided around week 21.  I'm really hoping it's gone forever.  My doctor wasn't concerned about it which is good, but it's still just super annoying.  I guess when you're pregnant your blood supply increases by about 40-50%, and your blood vessels can't always adjust and keep up which leads to dizziness and the feeling of being lightheaded.  As far as blood flow goes, I'm rocking those compression hose whenever I'm out of the house, and dang are they hot.  Imagine wearing Long Johns under your jeans even though it's 70 degrees outside.  That's pretty much what it feels like.

22 weeks down.  18 weeks to go!

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